30 days, 30 dances ...: 29. call up relatives in india

11.13.2011

29. call up relatives in india

I have lots of relatives, most of whom live in India. I have 23 cousins and many of them have kids. Not to mention all the uncles and aunts. So it can be a pretty busy affair keeping in touch with all of them. Unfortunately, I have to pick and choose the favorite ones. I haven't kept in constant touch since I moved to the US 11 years ago (wow! has it been that long?)

Very close to 30 days now ....

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What is 30 days, 30 dances?

30 days. 30 dances. Fairly straight forward right? Well, let me just state that I don't dance. Well, not unless you add some alcohol to my system. That story's for another day (besides you've probably heard it, it's not original, there's nothing exciting about it). My dances are different.

The idea spawned from Miranda July's rather intriguing, albeit brilliant, film, The Future. In the movie, Sophie, a dance instructor, panics about a routine, uninteresting future and promises to pursue her life-long dreams in the present. She chooses to do 30 new dances for each of the next 30 days and post the video on YouTube. She stumbles upon "dancer's block" on day 1. She encounters it for the next few days and eventually, she gives up. At some level, I really connected to Sophie's despair. Also, a dear friend convinced me to try it out.

So I set about creating a list. For me, 30 days 30 dances, signifies a mix of creating something new and a to-do list. I have a long list of interests I want to pursue but I never find the time (a lie) and energy (the truth) to finally accomplish something worthwhile - everything gets initiated, but nothing gets to the finish line. These hobbies include watching movies, music, photography, cooking, reading, writing, learning the guitar.

So every morning, I will pick a random dance and before the end of the day, I will have to finish the dance to the best of my ability. I don't want to set many rules. I also hope that I can allow destiny (big word, I know!) to participate a little in my life. For the most part, I let my moods govern my life. 30 days 30 dances will force me to do something I "don't feel like" doing at that moment of time. In some respect, get me out of my comfort zone a little, even if it's something as insignificant as having a sandwich for dinner.

Choosing to blog about it was an impulsive decision, and a scary thought because I feared it would die a slow death like my previous blog did. But I thought maybe this blog will police the program I have embarked upon. Even if nobody's reading this, maybe I will feel obligated to keep posting about my dances.

Will I do this again after 30 days? I hope I will grow to like it. Will I be successful? Time will tell, it always does ...